Maithily's Scribblings

Ever wondered what these colorful plates are for? They’re traditional South Indian wedding aarthi (welcome) plates used to greet the bridegroom. These were exclusively designed by my sister and me for my wedding. I was clear from the beginning—the plates had to represent my personality and reflect my unique style and preferences. A charming decoration featuring ceramic dolls that symbolize the different stages of a girl’s life. The couple doll represents the joy and happiness of the wedding. I’ve always loved wild animals—especially tigers! This plate is a tribute to my love for wildlife. Girls are always crazy about cosmetics and accessories! This cute little Barbie doll is all set, surrounded by different dresses, earrings, and perfume—ready to shine.  A wedding is all about sharing and celebrating love. It strengthens the bond between parents and marks the beginning of a beautiful love story for the bride and groom. This heart symbolizes acceptance and unity—a per...

Raise your hands if your wedding was full of tension and confusion! It’s not just you—almost everyone experiences hectic preparations for their big day. Some people walk through it with a cool head, but most (including me) turn everything upside down! Wedding planning involves so many things—you need to plan, prepare, understand, discuss, and manage countless tasks. Wedding preparations are never a one-person job. For my wedding, my mom was the planner, my dad was the financier and executor, my sister was the designer, and I took on the role of the purchaser! I don’t know why I had so many silly fights during my wedding preparations. Maybe it was because of my short temper or the fear of getting married. I’m sure many of you have experienced similar fears and ended up fighting with your close ones too! Here’s a list of common wedding preparation fights—just for laughs! 😄 1. Fight with Your Boss You definitely need at least two weeks off to celebrate your big day. Once your wedding ...

The first year goes by without many questions... Then the 2nd, 3rd, 4th, and 5th years pass, and still no signs of pregnancy! Many questions remain unanswered, and most are ignored. I manage the situation wisely while hiding away from the harsh reality. Free advice and pregnancy tips come from anyone who meets society's so-called eligibility criteria (Eligibility: get pregnant immediately after marriage or after multiple failed attempts). That was my life in the eyes of others for five years… My Reality vs. Society’s Expectations To me, my life was joyful. My compatibility with my husband grew stronger, there was lots of love, new friendships, a flourishing career, countless appreciations, new responsibilities, our dream home, and growing savings. Unfortunately, all these beautiful aspects went unnoticed because… I wasn’t pregnant. I watched friends and cousins get married and become parents soon after their wedding. I attended baby showers and first birthday parties, while I ca...

B-E-A-C-H!!! 🌊 Since my childhood, I’ve woken up to the sound of crashing waves and the smell of the sea. Having lived in Chennai for almost 25 years, I can randomly judge if the sea is rough or calm just by the sound. My house is only a few meters away from the sea, and a quick jump to my terrace gives me a clear view of the beautiful, serene waters every morning. For me, going to the beach is just a casual everyday activity, not a beach vacation. Whenever guests visit, a trip to the beach is inevitable, accompanied by homemade sweets and savories. What do we take to the beach? Honestly, I’ve never given it much thought! A casual visit means packing only the essentials—a can of fresh water, a napkin, a blanket, some beach toys, and snacks. I can visit the beach every morning, evening, and even at night! The fresh morning rays, soothing waves, soft sand, and cool evening breeze are nothing short of relaxing. Is a Beach Vacation Your Dream? Do you dream of spending your holida...