IN CHARGE WHO DOES NOT HAVE ANY RESPONSIBILITY

I wonder why someone is called an "in charge" when they do not have social responsibilities. A lovely apartment here in Mangalore, holding more than hundreds of flats does not have a proper team of committee members to handle the association. One gentleman calls himself as an authorised person or an 'in charge' who does not have any social responsibilities or public interest. 

In this egoist society, there are people who do not want to help others and they do not allow someone helping others too. People who do not know the role of management becomes a manager and people who do no know to guide become a leader! The unacceptable fact is that they do not even let others to manage or guide.

When I had to meet a responsible person, to let him know about my interests in awareness (tiger awareness and save nature) and knowledge sharing, I was denied permission to put a small piece of information on the notice board which is not going to cost anyone. There are many jobless people in this world, who does not participate in any social activities and do not encourage anybody to do the same. 

There are selfish people in this cruel world who wants a tiger enthusiast like me to stop my work and join hands to work for their NGO which is no way related to nature or wildlife conservation. Denying permission to conduct free awareness programs on tigers, wildlife and nature in an apartment which holds more than hundred houses is the first time that I have come across. This shows the social responsibility of the so called 'in charge' and not just him. There are many other selfish and brainless people who exist in this cruel world who does not care for the environment and does not allow anyone else to create awareness.

What harm is going to happen to hang a piece of paper on the notice board that would read 'Free awareness program for children' and have a talk with children about saving the nature and wildlife conservation? People like these who does not have the authority should not call themselves as 'in charge' or president and be ashamed of themselves for denying a social cause.

It is not just one! There are many such people exist in our country, because of whom, our environment is not secured and save!

Denying permission in one apartment is not going to stop me from spreading an awareness on wildlife conservation, tiger conservation among children and people. It is just the beginning and there are lots more to achieve. 

Appreciation for the hard work!

It feels nice when people appreciate you for the hard work and the efforts that you take. I have a passion for tigers which made me conduct a successful program at Creations summer camp, Managuda Mangalore for a group of 50-75 children with support from God, my dear husband, my dear dad and mom. I feel great to have know Dr. Gayathri, who referred me to Creations kids summer camp. Tiger awareness program was the first step and a Quiz for children between 9-13 age was the second opportunity that I received. It was fun to conduct a quiz and enjoy with the children in a new place and a new city.

A word of thanks by Mrs. Reshma, made my day (15-04-15). The efforts and my hard work and passion got appreciation for the organizer and from the parents which made me feel great!

This is not the end, it is just the beginning. Looking forward for more successful tiger awareness program and camps in and around very soon.

My First Butter Cream Cake!

Finally, at my 4th attempt, I was able to bake a cake and do the butter cream icing on it! Learning cake seems to be simple, but when I tried to work on it at home, I had a tough time. It took 4 attempts to make a soft and spongy vanilla cake. Finally, my hard work is paid. Did a cake that tasted great and yummy.

My first ever cream cake :P

Even such people exists in our society!!!

In a country like India where people are famous for hospitality and welcoming guests with a big smile, it is surprising to know that there are few who are heartless and does not know how to welcome a guest but at least not to insult them. I know I can't expect everyone to be sweet and nice to me, but in our country, should we not expect self-respect and courtesy????

It was a real insult and a bad experience that I had today when I had to meet a person for a good cause and the way I got treated by an educated illiterate women! Yes, I would call her an 'educated illiterate'! Do they ever learn 'hospitality' in their life ever?

 A gentleman invites us in and a lady shouts at the top of her voice to get out showing frustration and their anger on someone who is very new to them! I really pity for what she is! I saw a perfect example of how a woman should not be! Though they are educated, there are still such people who exist in this world. I wish they are put in such a situation where they understand how it hurts when they are treated that way!

We can't expect kind-hearted souls everywhere and today I learn how the mentality of people changes! There are poor souls in our country who does not know to respect others! Richness and education is nothing when they don't treat other people with respect and love!

Tiger Awareness program in Mangalore

As a tiger enthusiast, I planned to create awareness among children in Mangalore and have planned for a free tiger awareness program in Mangalore at my place. Hope that the program goes well and it reaches many young children and make a difference!

Few of my previous works are listed below

http://yocee.in/the-truth-about-tigers-docu-film-screening-sep-25-2010/

https://sites.google.com/site/lcsquaresite/events/saveourtigers-showtime

http://yocee.in/tiger-awareness-programme-at-sri-sankara-matric-school/

Sexual Assault and Molesting - Who should we blame?

There are reports of sexual assaults and molesting in the newspaper every day. Recently, there seems to be an increase in the rate of sexual assaults and I wonder when these will be stopped. Is this place not safe for young girls and women? "You wear an exposing dress so I rape you", "You come out of your home at night, so I rape you", "You roam with a boy, so I rape you", "I feel like touching you, so I rape you." It's not a blame game! What is causing a man to rape an innocent child? 

Where did this 'rape' culture come from? When we are keen on implementing western culture by the way we dress and by what we eat, why don't we implement the punishments and laws from the western countries? 

All Rapist should understand that they just prove that they are cowards by raping a girl who is no way related to them. The number of rape cases will never come down until a change happens with all men, who think of raping! It is their mindset that needs to be changed. They should have moral values and they need to understand the importance of life and overall they have to treat women with equal respect and care.

I always dream our Country to be a safer zone for women, where all men protect her and respect her. whom should we blame for the number of rape cases? Is it the men? Is it his mindset? Is it the society? The questions are unanswered till everyone understands the importance of their birth and live a respectful life!

My Very first cake decoration

"Are you going to spend Rs3000/- for a cake decoration?" was the first question that everyone asked me when I told them I'm going to a class. I too had a great confusion to attend the 4 hour baking class, but my passion towards cakes made me attend the class finally! My first every baking class though it was an expensive class, the techniques and ideas I have learned from there can be used life long...

Here is the picture of the first cake decorated by me!

My First Fondant decoration!

God Confusion- Innocent kid - A funny incident

Fairy, a cute little Catholic kid aged about 4 years came to my house last week and she saw the photos of Hindu God's that was kept in my pooja shelf and started asking me who's photo it was. I said, 'it is God' and the little girl didn't know who was God. She asked me 'Who is God?'. I replied her 'It is Jesus'

Lord Muruga - The photo on my wall

She went close to the picture of Lord Muruga that was hanging on the wall and said, 'This Jesus is wearing Lipstick, Mascara and blush and full make-up and he looks beautiful' I burst out laughing the way she commented. 'Kids of this generations are clever', I thought to myself.

Rewind back to 27-2-2014 - Travelling to Mangalore

27-2-2014 was an unforgettable day for me.. I left my parents, my home, my sister, my friends, and Chennai and traveled to reach this beautiful place, 'Mangalore' along with my husband, in-laws, and my dad. If you are born as a girl, you need to leave your home and live with your husband in a new home. 

27/2/2014 the train reached Mangalore Central sharp at 8.30 (Appreciate the punctuality of Southern Railways) and we unloaded 21 baggages from the train. We paid Rs1000/- to the porter at Chennai to load our things into the train but the porters at Mangalore charged Rs100/- to load them to our car. The same distance, Same weight but for a lesser price. I started liking Mangalore from that minute. There were no traffic jams and very less pollution. Everyone riding a two-wheeler had their helmets on! Which is mostly uncommon in Chennai!

We reached the beautiful house, that my husband has rented for us, around 9.30 in the morning and started unpacking the items. "What do we eat for morning breakfast?" I asked. My husband replied 'I'l bring food from the hotel' and left. He came after an hour sweating badly! 'No shop has idlies' he said and that was unbelievable for someone from Chennai because, Idly is common in every shop at any time in Chennai. Dosa with sambar was in the menu and for the first time I didn't like dosa and sambar because of its sweetness. Sweet Sambar was something new to me! That minute we decided to cook lunch so that we don't have to eat sweet sambar. After pooja and lunch we set out to do some shopping. 

The clock struck 7 PM and the place was still bright like an evening. Normally in Chennai, after 6.00PM it becomes dark. Excited about the new place, we came home after a happy shopping in a new place with new people. And now, it is a year and I love this place for its weather, unlimited, rainfall, calm area, traffic free zone, pollution free place and many more. The memories of reaching Mangalore is still fresh!

Mangalore is a good place to live peacefully by enjoying the beauty of the nature, but it is never like my birth place Chennai!!! 

How to get selected in job interview?

Be patient 

Be confident

I feel very proud to say that I have never failed in any of the job interviews that I have attended since my college days. It was in the year 2009 when I faced my first interview in my college with Cybernet Slash Support. The interviewer asked me to talk about anything that I like and I chose to talk about the 'Studious first bench and the naughtiest last bench students in my class.' The interviewer appreciated the way I stood and greeted him before I started my conversation. And yes, he gave me the offer letter right away!

My second Interview was also during my final year college with a company called Ajuba. Out of 100 plus students, I was the only one who got selected for a face to face round with the HR Manager. I answered to all the questions he asked and the offer letter got printed!

How did this happen? Interviews are conducted only to test your confidence and talents. Be confident in any interview and success will come your way. If you would ask me to tell you an easy interview tips, I would say 

• Answer boldly
• Answer with confidence
• Answer to the point
• Accept your mistake 
• Learn to say 'No' to the things that you really don't know.

I have attended more than 10-15 interviews for the past 5 years and have been successful to get through all the rounds easily with a little bit of knowledge and more confidence. 

How to prepare for an interview?

I'm not going to give you a question paper! All you need to do is to prepare yourself to answer the question bold and clear.

• Concentrate on the dress that you wear
• Carry yourself neat and clean
• Carry the required documents
• Be on time
• Don't keep looking at the watch
• Don't play games on your mobile
• Don't listen to music 
• Don't keep talking over the phone (Very Important)
• Be patience and wait
• Go through you resume/bio-data 
• Be prepared to tell your work experience to the interviewer
• Don't Rush
• Greet the interviewer
• Answer politely and stay calm
• Do not ask your performance to your interviewer (Have confidence in you that you have done well)
• Ask questions only if they give your space
• Wait patiently (If they have not given the result on spot)
• Leave from the place (If you are asked to, don't discuss the results)
• Wait for an email or phone call for a day or two
• Incase of no response, call the respective HR to know your results
• If you pass, Feel happy about it and start preparing for the next move
• If you fail, Don't worry, there are many companies offering various job. Identify the mistakes that you did on this interview and do well the next time.

Interviews are not a nightmare, A successful interview depends on how you talk and how you answer. Do well in your next interview!!! All the best.

Relaxation is not just for human!!!

Every one of us look forward to enjoy Sunday's especially after 6 days of tiring work. I guess even these dogs need some relaxation like us...

This was clicked on a Sunday Morning when me and my husband went to see the early morning sunrise at the sea!