Thank you note from a woman to all the men

Women's Day Thank you note from a Woman to men

On this Women’s Day, I would like to acknowledge the three best men in my life.

My Dad

Yes, his efforts brought me into this world. More than a father, he was a guide, advisor, and mentor. He gave me the best education that helped me stand on my own two feet. His guidance shaped my career, giving me strength and confidence. He will always be my role model.

My Husband

He is my best friend and well-wisher, always there whenever I need a shoulder to lean on. He shares my joys and sorrows. Without his support, encouragement, and trust, I would not be who I am today.

My Father-in-law

I feel blessed to have him in my life. He respects my ideas and lets me live in a way that makes me truly happy.

The education and experiences I have gained would not have been possible without these three men. When I look back, all I see is the freedom to pursue my dreams, constant encouragement, abundant love, and complete trust from my entire family.

I also want to take this opportunity to thank all my brothers, friends, cousins, uncles, colleagues, managers, and every man I know. Thank you for treating me well and making me feel proud on this Women’s Day.

I feel proud to be a woman.

With love,
Maithily Arulraja

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